I help anxious attachers who are stuck in cycles of overgiving and self-doubt finally feel secure in themselves and in their relationships. Through deep inner work, nervous system healing, and powerful embodiment tools, you’ll stop chasing love and start receiving it.
It's time to feel sexy, safe, & like "YOU" Again
Break Toxic Patterns & Be Magnetic Using the REMEMBRNCE method
Go From Anxious to secure
- You stare at your phone, analyzing every text, rewriting drafts again and again to avoid triggering your partner — only to get defensiveness, deflection, or silence in return.
- You’re the friend everyone calls for advice. But when you need support, no one shows up the way you do and it leaves you feeling disposable.
- You're afraid that speaking your needs or setting boundaries will make you “too much” and drive people away.
- You scroll TikTok or Instagram looking for answers, saving videos and quotes, trying new “fixes”… but the same patterns keep repeating.
- You feel like your relationships are conditional: you’re valued for what you give, not for who you are.
- You try so hard to earn love by being perfect: the most supportive partner, the best friend, the one who never complains — and yet you’re left exhausted, resentful, and questioning what’s wrong with you.
You're overwhelmed and feel like giving up. I've been there too, angel.
And Recieving Very Little In Return
You're Doing So Much Giving
Here's the problem...
Get To Know the woman behind the page
Starting at 18, I’ve been helping people break free from anxious attachment, overgiving, and chasing love by guiding them back to their secure, magnetic selves. I blend inner child healing, shadow work, and feminine–masculine polarity to help you feel safe in your body, clear in your boundaries, and radiant in your relationships.
From People Pleaser Attracting Avoidants, to Magnetic Coach
the "before" when I was a sales girl!
Marc Zanotto
Anxious attacher, to secure lover
"I used to be the bulldozer in relationships. I gave 200% — showing up unannounced, fixing everything, and constantly chasing affection, validation, and attention. I’d triple text, overgive, and still wonder what I was doing wrong when my avoidant pulled away.
Working with Emily, I uncovered the trauma of losing my brother that made me believe I had to do everything to earn love. She guided me back to feeling secure, grounded in my masculinity, and for the first time, I don’t have to chase. My ex and I got back together, we’ve moved in, and we’re getting married within the year!"
Working with Emily has completely transformed My life & relationship!
Tess
United States
"I felt deep somatic changes in Emily’s work that I could never access in therapy. From the very first childhood meditation, things shifted quickly — I was hooked into fewer cycles of obsessive thinking, started to feel clear about my past relationship, and could finally put words to what happened. I’m learning to trust my own judgment from an embodied place, which makes decisions feel easier because I know my worth and who I am.
What I loved most was the blend of attachment knowledge, somatics, and spirituality. Something I had been searching for. This work is powerful, and if you’re on the fence, do it. You won’t find this kind of integration anywhere else."
I Experienced More Shifts In Here Then Therapy Ever Did!
Kelsey
United States
I love how Emily truly understands me, listens without judgment, and always offers real solutions. Through our work, I’ve stepped deeper into my feminine and discovered the true power of my divine femininity. The changes happened so quickly, and I’m continuing to grow more comfortable embodying my highest self. You’ll find so much healing, compassion, and understanding working with Emily.
Recovering From Discard to Feeling Free & feminine
10 Common Mistakes Anxious Attachers Make
(And How to Avoid Them)
Behind the Scenes
10 Mindset Shifts That Helped Me Detach & Become Secure
Lifestyle
What the F Is the Emotional Home?
Attachment Theory
The Art of Saying No: Setting Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty
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